Welcome to the first-ever edition of Femme Confidential – your front-row seat to the Future State for Women. This isn’t some cookie-cutter e-newsletter designed to keep things polite. Nope. This is where we rip the filter off, call out outdated BS for what it is, and remind you – with full-bodied unapologetic energy – that you are the main character, the plot twist and the mother f*cking director of your own life.
I’ve been meaning to do this for a while, but, honestly? I was too busy doing the things women “shouldn’t” do. Building a business. Having an opinion. Putting myself first. And this year? I’m doubling down. No more ‘shoulds.’ Only WANTS.
Because here’s the truth: The hottest love affair you’ll ever have? It’s with yourself. The best years of your life? They’re not behind you, they’re just getting started. And the life you actually want? It’s waiting for you to stop asking for permission and take it.
So consider this your official invitation to ditch the rulebook, rewrite the script and step into the power you’ve always had. FemmeCon isn’t just a brand. It’s a god damn revolution baby!
Let’s go!
Redefining Modern Womanhood: Our New Mantra
Drumroll, please… FemmeCon’s renewed purpose is Redefining Modern Womanhood.
We’re here to challenge traditional narratives, rewrite societal norms and remind women that they are in control of their own f*cking lives.
We’re done with the “shoulds.”
We’re done with expectations that don’t serve us.
We’re not waiting to be chosen. We choose ourselves.
I’ve heard the narrative that women are victims of a system stacked against us. And listen, I get it. But I also don’t buy into it. And I don’t want you to either.
Spilling the Tea... Did You Know This?
- Women control 80% of household spending.
- By 2034, women will inherit 65% of nearly $5 trillion in wealth.
- More female millionaires are being created than men – 5.7% growth vs. 3.6%. And yes it’s a competition that we are now winning.
- The number of female entrepreneurs is growing three times faster than our male counterparts.
- One-third of Australia’s small businesses are owned by women.
- By 2030, 45% of women aged 25–44 will be single and child-free by choice.
- We are not powerless. We are not behind. We are not waiting for permission.
We are in the most powerful position we’ve ever been in.
And FemmeCon exists to remind you of that power, especially on the days when you don’t feel it.
It’s becoming very apparent that women are the future power players of the world. And the best part? They didn’t even see us coming.
The FemmeCon Manifesto
- FemmeCon is for women who are done playing by the rules that were never designed for us.
- This is for the woman who has woken up and thought, is this really it?
- The one who has followed the script, ticked all the boxes, done everything “right” and still feels unfulfilled.
- The one who is ready for something more.
- Because let’s be clear – marriage and motherhood are not the finish line. They’re options, not obligations.
- You don’t have to start a business, travel the world, or be a CEO. But you do have to stop living for everyone else.
- Being single is not a waiting room for love.
- You have permission to do whatever the hell makes you happy.
FemmCon Pod Got A Face Lift: Introducing 'Modern Woman, Redefined'
The FemmeCon podcast has had a glow-up and is now called Modern Woman, Redefined. Every episode, we’ll be diving into the stories of women who have rewritten their own rules, including:
- The career no one saw coming.
- The unorthodox relationship – or choosing no relationship at all. Shock horror.
- The decision to live child-free or do it on your own.
- The reinvention of life, identity and success on our own terms.
We started recording again in December, and I am so excited to kick things off with Lindy Klim. If you don’t know Lindy, she’s a bloody brilliant force who has navigated divorce, reinvention and financial rebuilding in the public eye. We talk about the breakdown of her second marriage, the misconceptions around her wealth, why she needed to borrow money to set up her life again, and how she’s taking back control of her story. Her episode drops next week. I’ll remind you when it lands—obviously.
Upcoming Event: A Feminine Affair Galentine's Day
Girlfriend, this is your official invite to FemmeCon’s annual Galentine’s Day event: A Feminine Affair.
This year’s theme? Redefining Love, Dating, and Pleasure for Modern Women. We’re diving deep into non-traditional relationships, dating yourself, and prioritising pleasure.
We’ve got some amazing brand partners this year, including Tinder, Vush and Dr Fresh Clinic, plus incredible speakers like Tinder’s resident dating expert, Sera Bozza.
If you’re not already coming, what are you even doing?
Your Challenge This Week
If you’ve made it this far, I love you. You’re my kind of woman.
Now, here’s my challenge to you:
Make one decision this week that is purely for YOU.
Not your partner. Not your family. Not your job. YOU.
And when you do? Tell me about it. Write me an email. Leave a Reply Below. Post about it. Share it with us on Instagram.
FemmeCon isn’t just a brand – it’s a movement. And it only works when women like you decide to step into their power and own their choices.
Let’s f*cking do this baby!
Love, Chiquita.
